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Post by itstanyamarie on Sept 12, 2018 13:30:58 GMT
After numerous relationship issues with my youngest child's father, I applied for a home loan today. Found a reasonable place close to my job and my friends. Payment seems to be manageable. I just hate the idea of not having everything thoroughly planned. I'm going to have to apply for childcare assistance if I can't get Charlie into pre-k; the entire thought process is a little overwhelming. Any thoughts and advice are appreciated.
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Post by tishawatson on Sept 12, 2018 17:08:10 GMT
You are strong independent and motivated. When you set your mind to something it can easily be accomplished. Try to see the positive in all things instead of the negative. Know that everything happens for a reason. And put your faith in God. Home loans and childcare are two very stressful things, so find other ways to remember how to breathe be calm and relax throughout the process. Easier said than done I know. But I have faith in you and know that you will succeed. And remember to not be stubborn and ask for help when you need it . Take advantage of your resources and friends that are close by, this will be a time when you need them the most. And Most importantly, I love you. And you have a lot of friends and family that love you and support you no matter what, even from a distance.
Now, what specifically did you need help with or need information on?
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Post by itstanyamarie on Sept 12, 2018 21:04:59 GMT
My sister, you sure know how to make somebody cry! Lol. Love you. I got the hard part done I think. I applied for the loan at the bank. I know there are a few low income down Payment assistance programs, but idk where to begin looking for those. Just waiting to see what the next step is. I guess its a good thing there is a legal eviction process, even though our bags are packed and already loaded in the truck just in case.
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Post by Leahws on Sept 13, 2018 9:36:59 GMT
Hi Sweetie, just as Tish said you are strong, independent, and an amazing woman and mother. It took a lot of guts to pack up and move halfway across the country like you did to try and better your family and you have done it so far, just remember to not let anyone talk you into something you can't afford. Loans, contracts and anything else that has to do with buying a home can be very tricky and stressful but you can do it. you're a smart, intelligent woman so roar if you have to. Like Tish said don't be scared to ask for help.
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Post by itstanyamarie on Sept 20, 2018 17:16:28 GMT
Got a telephone call from the bank today, and it sounds like I have a pre-approval letter coming my way. Potentially found a decent place, and I'm really excited to see what the future holds.
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Post by tishawatson on Sept 21, 2018 0:24:28 GMT
Very exciting!
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Post by itstanyamarie on Sept 21, 2018 2:35:21 GMT
Thanks Tisha! How is your moving process going so far?
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Post by tishawatson on Sept 21, 2018 19:01:32 GMT
Exhausting lol
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Post by kandee27 on Nov 16, 2019 5:50:59 GMT
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